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Imagine a day in your not too distant future,

where you have more time to spend the way YOU choose. More time to take better care of yourself, feel HEALTHIER, and HAPPIER.

where you know your worth and have more CONFIDENCE, the confidence to ask for what you deserve, or to say “no” those times you say “yes” just because you were asked.

where you CREATE more time to spend with your loved ones, DOING what you love, BEING who you love.

where you feel a greater sense of INNER PEACE and SELF-ACCEPTANCE for who you are and where you are on your journey.

where you experience a DEEPER CONNECTION with your soul and your creativity.

Let’s bring that future into your present with this new online course:

Empower the Wisdom of Your Heart – Stop Sabotaging Your Happiness.

This course focuses on identifying, understanding, reframing, and shifting the ways the Victim Archetype operates in our lives and how we relate to it. 

Yes!  We dared to go there!  The VICTIM archetype!!! Whoa… such a big ugly word!  Who wants to ‘label’ themselves a victim?  NO ONE!

BUT… because archetypes are basically a pattern of thoughts and behaviors that are UNIVERSAL that means that everyone around the world accesses their patterns from time to time, more often than not unconsciously.

No matter where you are in your life, just beginning your healing journey or years into it, the Victim Archetype is probably still active without you knowing it.  In fact, the Victim Archetype has tremendous purpose, and has served you well, however, it comes a time to bring the vigilance of the archetype into the present where you are not in constant danger. 

In this course, we are bringing a unique perspective to this fear-based archetype. We call it the Everyday Victim Archetype.

Before we go into what is the Everyday Victim Archetype, let us quickly introduce ourselves.

Cathy Parling (left) and Evelyne Verret (right)

Between the 2 of us we bring 30+ years of experience in coaching, teaching, writing, and facilitating in the fields of personal development, creativity, energy, and spirituality. 

Together we have created and taught classes and retreats on several Archetypes as well as, the Divine Feminine, Manifesting, and Emotional Cleansing.

Each of us maintain a private practice. Evelyne’s training is in Intentional Creativity®, and Law of Attraction Coaching, and has studied with Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes the author of Women Who Run With the Wolves. Cathy is a Master Practitioner of Reiki, Sekhem, Seichim, a certified facilitator of Dawn Clark’s RCF™ and CTE™, and is highly trained in hypnotherapy, Transformational Breathwork, and Esoteric Healing, and author of The Key to Me.

We both have experienced the Victim Archetype, and in particular the Everyday Victim Archetype,  in our own ways.

 

Let’s continue…

 

What exactly is the Everyday Victim Archetype?

The Everyday Victim Archetype is that aspect of the Victim Archetype, that voice in your head,  that speaks to you Everyday.

It’s the part of you that has a hard time saying “no”, disappointing others, and setting boundaries.

It’s the part of you that blames and complains and feels like everything is happening TO you.

It’s the part of you that  gives your power away to please others.

It’s that part of you that gives all the reasons why you can’t, or shouldn’t do, what you love, what you long for, what you dream of.

In the course, you will discover how to identify when this Archetype is directing your life, and how you can take your power back.

One thing we know from years of working with others, and our own personal journeys, is how easy it is to give our power away.

It happens unconsciously, so often we don’t even know we have done it!

The Victim Archetype operates behind the scenes and as long as it is ignored, it stays in control over our lives, our relationships, our abundance, our happiness.

Identifying what is operating in the background, in your subconscious mind, and learning how to get out of the loop that keeps you stuck will bring relief and clarity.

Recognizing and shifting your thoughts empowers you and creates a feeling of strength and confidence, so you can make choices that support you and the life you desire.

There is a distinction between being a victim and operating from the Victim Archetype.

Being a victim is:

Someone who has been harmed, injured, or tricked, either by another person, an organization, or an event like a crime, an accident, or abuse.

Interesting to note, not all people that have been victimized operate from the Victim Archetype.

Operating from the Victim Archetype is:

Someone who acts out of a fear that they can not, or will not, survive.  The fear is not dependent on events happening to the person.  Even if there is no real threat, the individual will perceive anything and everything as a threat to its survival.  Every action will be taken in order to protect oneself from perceived threat. 

Of course, we will go in much more depth in the class.

Who is this course for?

 This course is for people…

who worry about disappointing others, are afraid to say no, and struggle to set boundaries for fear of ruffling feathers.

who are “helpers and givers”, so busy putting everyone else first that they don’t have time to help themselves, or just do something they long to do.

who tuned into their thoughts and realized they would never speak to anyone else the way they speak to themselves.

who feel easily annoyed and frustrated with the people around them for no reason.

who blame and complain and feel like things happen “to” them.

WHO ARE READY TO TAKE THEIR POWER BACK,
GO FOR THEIR DREAMS,
AND BE IN LOVE WITH THEIR LIFE!!!

Albert Einstein said: “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” 

This course offers you the information you need to shift how you think, how you tell your stories, and how you relate to the people and events in your life, AND it gives you the tools to do it. 

Not only that, we will also introduce you to a brand new, never before discovered, archetype that revealed itself to us as we studied the Victim Archetype.  We will teach how you can partner with this new, empowering archetype whose job it is to see different perspectives, and has wisdom to share with you. 

Support the Quote by Albert Einstein

What is in this course?

7 Modules

These recorded modules will open on Sunday evenings March 15, 22, 29, 2020. This will allow time to watch the videos and integrate the teachings. Plus, you can go at your own pace to better retain the information and use it constructively in your life.  

It will give you time to practice what you learn so you become better at recognizing when your Everyday Victim Archetype shows up in your life. You will build and strengthen a new muscle: Self-awareness

We all need time to integrate what we learn. We all process at different speeds and in different ways. That is a fact that has been proven many times. Every time you listen to your recording it is an opportunity to discover new pieces and hear things in a new way.

MODULE 1

The Truth Behind the Victim Archetype

  Discover Archetypes, how they work, and what they can do FOR you.

Understanding about archetypes is important because it brings the opportunity to accept and love yourself, to stop beating yourself up, and to begin to be your own best friend, rather than worst enemy.

MODULE 2

What is your Victim Archetype telling you?

You will discover some of your storylines and meet your Everyday Victim Archetype.

You will learn how to silence that fear based voice and take your power back!

You will be able to stand up for yourself and say what you mean confidently.

MODULE 3

The Unconscious Dictator

Identify the Triggers, who/what pushes the buttons in you, that activate your Everyday Victim Archetype. 

Understanding gives you greater connection to yourself and brings you the opportunity to choose your responses, and respond to life’s situations in healthy ways.

MODULE 4

The Power of Seed Events

You will learn what is a Seed Event and how they can create unhealthy patterns.

Learn a way to change how you tell the stories in your life, and to do it in the present so you feel strong, confident, and grounded.

MODULE 5

Tipping the Scales

You will take an honest, conscious look at what you gain, and what it costs you, when you operate from the Everyday Victim Archetype.  AND, you will face the most important question of all!

MODULE 6

Unmask Your Villains

Who plays the role of the Villains in your story? Who are you telling your Story to and how it helps you, or hurts you.

You will be surprised!

Your relationships will become more authentichonest, and loving. You will discover the ability to trust yourself in a way that you never have before.

MODULE 7

Your Hidden Archetype

You’ll be the first to ever be introduced and explore the newly discovered, never before revealed, Hidden Archetype.

This new archetype speaks to you in the language of possibility, opportunity, positivity, and encouragement.  

You’ll learn how to access this new archetype’s pattern of thoughts and behaviors whenever you feel disempowered.

Knowing this Hidden Archetype puts you in the seat of power, the seat of choices.

7 Concrete How-To Tools

The 7 easy-to-use tools come in bite size chunks and will increase your awareness, bring clarity, and help you make the changes necessary to take your power back.  They offer you step-by-step guidance to implement in your life on a daily  basis, and/or whenever you get off track.

We still use these tools on a daily basis, ourselves. Even though we have been studying this energy and have healed in so many ways, this archetype is deeply ingrained, especially in women. Women have been imprinted with the “pleaser” mindset. It wasn’t that long ago that women did not have rights, they couldn’t even vote. Women needed to be supported by a man, they needed to please and say “yes” in order to survive and care for their children. That energy is still there in our DNA. The science of Epigenetics proves that. I has created fears that have been passed from woman to woman, generation after generation. 

2 Group Q&A Coaching Calls

The more contact you have with your teachers the more support you receive. The more support you receive the greater chance of successfully implementing these strategies into your life and taking your power back.

After experiencing the teachings shared, and working with the concepts and tools, 2 Coaching Calls, scheduled March 27 and April 10, 2020, will offer you the chance to ask questions and receive feedback. Both instructors will be present on these calls to maximize your opportunities to receive personal guidance and support. 

 

 

 

 

5 Easy Creativity Exercises for Non-Artists

Creative thinking involves the discovery of novel connections and is therefore tied intimately to learning.   ‘The Neuroscience of Creativity’, – Scott Barry Kaufman

You will also receive 5 Creativity & Integration Exercises designed for everyone. They will help you access your creative potential by activating both sides of your brain so you can recognize and respond to your Everyday Victim Archetype in a new, healthy way.

Also, these step-by-step processes will allow you to integrate the different teachings so you can access new thoughts, new perspectives, and new insights about your situation and how to create the life you desire. 
All you will need is either of these: pencil, pen, sharpie, colored pencils/markers/crayons. 

‘Creative activity is a type of learning process where the teacher and pupil are located in the same individual.’” Arthur Koestler

Daily Empowerment

 

Our exclusive Facebook online community is the perfect place to continue your discovery process after each class. Here, you can continue the discussion about your course materials and interact with your fellow students to take your exploration to an even deeper level.

We will add a meaningful new post everyday to support you in your transformation, and integration, of the teachings.  The exclusive Facebook online community is the perfect place to continue your discovery process after each class. Here, you can continue the discussion about your course materials and interact with your fellow students to take your exploration to an even deeper level.

Audio download of Cathy’s Grounding and Column of Light CD!

 

This is an introduction to Grounding and your Column of Light. The three tracks are designed to build upon each other which assists you in developing an understanding and practice of these techniques. Being Grounded and in your Column of Light helps you stay centered, gives a channel for the energy of your emotions and thoughts to leave your body, and keeps you connected to your Source of vitality and Life Force. These are all key pieces to personal balance and alignment.

This includes a 13 minute guided meditation that Cathy uses with every client, every visit. It’s that important!

WAIT!  There’s more!!!  As if it wasn’t enough already, you will also get these …

Bonuses

Path to Personal Power Roadmap – PDF

 

The entire class condensed in a series of questions that will help you identify where you are stuck and what your next steps to shift would be.  It’s convenient and easily accessible – no need to to go over all your notes.

 

Audio Download of Meet Your Glorious Future Self Guided Visioning by Evelyne

 
 
Your mind time-travels constantly.  This tool takes this fact into consideration and invites you to intentionally connect with a future self who is healed, at peace, who lives a fulfilling and purposeful life.  In this specific visualization, you will be guided to meet 2 future selves at different points in time and together, you will go meet your child or teenager self when she felt alone, desperate, not supported and needed love.  You will show her a new vision of her awesome future and this will help change her reality.  You will also give her all the love and support she needs (you needed at the time).  
 

Energy Management 101

 

You will receive the audio download of the Energetic Tune-Up created by Cathy.  This download teaches you how to reclaim your energy, clear others people’s energy, and be firmly in your own space….grounded and more connected. It’s like an individual session in the comfort of your own home, and used regularly it will help you have greater focus, clearer energy, and more strength and confidence.

Learning to manage your vital energy is imperative to live a happy and  fulfilled life. Having this energy therapy session at your disposal to use on a regular basis makes self-care easy and accessible.

You will receive all of the above for only $277 if you pay in full or 2 payments of $147

TESTIMONIALS

I recently took the Victim class with Cathy and Evelyne. This class offers opportunities for self-disclosure and getting to know yourself better; I would highly recommend the Victim Class for everyone interested in diving deeper into their own self-discovery process.
Vickie Green
MA LPC
I came in viewing victimhood as a weakness and a liability. What a gift to see and feel the lessons that are learned and the strength it can add to our core and soul and it changed my life!
Ann Reed
Sls Mgr/Spirituality & Health Magazine
I believe we all experience the victim energy on an almost daily basis. I certainly do, and I was unaware this was what was happening. Understanding the purpose is to protect me anytime I feel uncomfortable/unsafe is worth every penny and more.
Madie Begley
Recovery Center Coordinator/Coach

FAQ

Do you have a refund policy?

We are so confident that this information will benefit you that we are offering this Money Back Guarantee: If you join the class for the first 14 days of the program, engage with the teachings provided,  and feel it is not working for you…. all you need to do is share why and you will receive a 100% refund. The reason we want to know why is simply so we can fine tune the information provided. 

I’m not an artist, can I benefit even if I don’t do the creativity exercises?

I get it, Neither am I! (Cathy speaking here!) Most of the people that have benefited from integrating creativity into their healing process are not painters or artists. This process is not outcome oriented, it’s how you feel and what you become aware of through the process.

You don’t need to do the creativity exercises to benefit from the course.  There are other activities that you might prefer to do and that will support you in shifting your relationship with the Victim Archetype.

That being said, what if doodling, or drawing could help you access both sides of your brain and help you shift your perspectives, thoughts and feelings?  Wouldn’t it be silly to not try? No one is looking over your shoulder. This is something you do for you. It is like taking out your notebook and writing down a few thoughts, it can be a very private and helpful process.  All you will need is either of these: pencil, pen, sharpie, colored pencils/markers/crayons. 

What if I don’t care for facebook and have never joined?

It’s your choice.  However, you will miss out on the daily empowerment group participation and the opportunity to receive support in your integration and implementation.  If you want, you could create a basic private page that will allow you to join our group.

For any questions, email us at: empower@everhealing.com